WE are on the countdown to Christmas Day and while some of us have everything organised from stocking fillers to the lunch menu, there are those of us who still feel November was not long enough.
For some, knowing that Christmas is just around the corner is not really comforting, especially if finances are tight. It is supposed to be a time of peace on earth, goodwill to all men and all that good stuff, so it feels wrong to wish for a tiny bit more preparation time.
The shops are full of Christmas fare, the TV ads are full of all the latest toys and gourmet food offerings and struggling families are full of apprehension.
For many parents that means getting a lump in their throats every time they see a Christmas bauble or fairy lights. There is a sense of guilt at displaying a Grinch-like demeanor when you are still saving for the power bill and your children’s classmates are expecting an iPad. The pressure to be happy can be overwhelming.
Some would argue that Christmas shopping is flagged far too early, just as many say having hot cross buns in the supermarkets soon after Boxing Day is ludicrous. It makes sense from a marketing point of view but does it depict the true spirit of the season?
Then again it might be a good thing that we are hammered with reminders early enough to give our heads a wobble and realise that Christmas truly is about much more than spending money.
It could also prevent us making a spectacular mistake like going into debt in early December just to see the looks of joy on our childrens’ faces on Christmas morning and then finding they are more intrigued with the wrapping paper or boxes. Remember, there are plenty of free things to do.
Over past weeks we have featured a stream of articles about Christmas functions and fundraising for the needy.
If you want to take the children to see one of those houses dressed up with lights for Christmas, just click on redlandcitybulletin.com.au and follow our map.
Redlanders love having fun at Christmas because thousands also have clicked on to our Elf on the Shelf story, with more than 70 people submitting photos of elves they have dressed up for Christmas. With all the presents and fun, we should remember those who do not have as much as us and see if we can find it in our hearts to help.
Remember, Christmas does not have to be measured by receipts for things that not everyone can afford.